This past week I took all of the kids in for their six month dental check ups. After my 5 yo was checked, the dentist told me that he’s been doing a good job brushing since everything looked good. I smiled and said that was nice to hear. Then the 9 yo was checked, and she told me the same thing. At that, I had to tell her the truth – that it was more a credit to their diet than to their diligent toothbrushing.
The horrifying truth is, the 5 yo hardly ever brushes, and the 9 yo isn’t much better. Yeah, they’re supposed to brush their teeth every night (that’s what I tell them to do after dinner when I send them upstairs to put on their pajamas and get ready for bed- and until very recently I thought that’s what they did), but a few nights before the trip to the dentist, my 9 yo son informed me that it had been weeks since he brushed his teeth. I’d like to think he has a poor sense of time and meant days, but in the best of scenarios, it wasn’t too regular.
The dentist couldn’t believe it. She told me that she can generally tell who brushes well and who doesn’t by the kind of teeth they have, and that she never could have guessed that they don’t brush regularly. My kids were just totally contradicting her experience.
Then she checked my 13 yo daughter, who is really responsible about everything, and when it comes to toothbrushing, she never misses a day. Even when her braces were taken off, all of her teeth were perfectly white – most kids have yellowish marks around the whiter area of the teeth where the braces were. Anyway, here’s the big irony – she had a cavity. Miss Perfect Brusher. Okay, so it was between the teeth and the bracket from her braces kept her from being able to get in there. But still. So much for regular brushing being the answer to cavities. I’m not saying it doesn’t help – but there’s more to dental health than how often you brush. Think about it – in traditional societies, people never brushed, and in cultures throughout the world, tooth decay was minimal.
So I told the dentist that my recent research on dental health has led me to believe that this child will always be the most vulnerable of all my kids to cavities. Why? Of all my kids, she’s the one with the worst teeth and is not coincidentally the one with whom I was vegan for part of my pregnancy with her. She’s also the one who had very crooked teeth (prior to her braces – her teeth are perfect now) and has hypoplasia on one back molar (this is caused by a malfunction in utero of the formation of dental enamel – you don’t see the results until the teeth emerge but that’s when the quality of it is determined). I didn’t understand how she needed a root canal at the age of three when I only gave them a teaspoon of sugar daily in their breakfast oatmeal and minimal sweets once a week, otherwise had lots of veggies and whole grains (very little animal protein – just chicken once a week), only gave her water to drink (no soda or juice) – now I know. She didn’t get the minerals she needed in utero at the crucial time to build strong teeth. Apparently this is very common to vegetarians and children of vegetarian. Kids need minerals that they don’t get in sufficient quantity in a vegan diet to develop strong teeth.
So while I wouldn’t tell my kids not to brush their teeth, it’s certainly overrated, and the role of superior nutrition is virtually never heard about – but it’s the nutrition that makes the real difference!
Avivah