This week I’m officially getting started on my Pesach (Passover) cleaning! I generally don’t do more than two hours of cleaning on any given day except when we turn over the kitchen. It’s too easy to get worn down by all the work; I find breaking it into manageable pieces makes it possible to enjoy this time of year and all the attendant preparations as much as any other time of year! The kids do a lot to help, and I don’t want them to get burnt out, either. Some people like to start way in advance, but I’ve never found it beneficial to start too much in advance, since then you have to keep it in Pesach ready condition. Our house isn’t large enough that I can easily limit areas for a long time in advance!
I feel that each holiday is best enjoyed when the focus is on that holiday. That means that I don’t do any planning for Pesach until Purim has passed – I focus on Purim when it’s Purim and don’t think about Pesach until it’s over, and all the Purim stuff has been cleaned up and put away. I try not to drag out Pesach cleaning, but I also don’t like the pressure of having too much to do, too close to Pesach, so this schedule works well for me. I clean mostly in the afternoons on Monday through Weds (sometimes Thursday, but I prefer to keep that time available for Shabbos preparations), so we can continue our regular homeschooling schedule until the week before Pesach. I also use part of Sundays.
Here’s my basic schedule:
Week 1 (March 2 – 4): I inventoried chametz (leavened foods) and clothing/shoes, and made sure everyone has what they need for the upcoming holiday and spring season. It was the week of shopping, lol! I still have a couple of things I need to get (including my personal big purchase that I’ll get today), but I’m waiting for a good sale to come along for the couple of other items. 🙂
Week 1: The week after Purim I do my planning – along with things like I mentioned above. It’s preliminary kind of stuff that allows me to focus on Pesach cleaning without having to stop and start knowing it’s done.
Week 2 (March 8 – 11): We’ll clean the top two floors. That includes all the bedrooms, the attic, linen closet, and two bathrooms. We have a homeschool gathering on Weds. as well as an eye doctor appointment to take ds16 to, so I’ve scheduled that as an off-day so we can all enjoy hanging out without feeling like we should be cleaning.
Yesterday I bought our matzas and some other Pesach staples – I don’t like shopping when it’s crowded and I avoid the rush by doing it now. It also spaces out the cost – six cases of grape juice, meats, and matza were all paid for with my Feb. budget. My March budget will cover everything else. My food budget is the same at this time of year as any other month – $600. If I have to, I’ll stop in at the kosher supermarket a few days before Pesach when everything else is done to pick up any small items I don’t yet have. Unlike the vast majority of people in the very long lines at that time, I’m relaxed and cheerful; I consider it almost a public service to share some positive energy when everyone is dripping with tension. 🙂
Week 3 (March 14 – 18): At this point I do the basement and laundry room. This year I’m slightly adjusting our schedule to accommodate the home repairs the kids want to do. They want to some spackle a little, paint a little, fix some things that don’t look so nice (like the hole in the bathroom door created when ds2 used a screwdriver to screw into it!). So on Sunday and Monday, we’ll do the basement and laundry room, and then will have the following three days to do the desired visual improvements. 🙂
Week 4 (March 21 – 25): I’ll do the living room, dining room, and kitchen (we have an open layout so it’s easiest to do them all about the same time). This is the most intensive time, since it’s a lot of work in just three days. I like to finish cleaning about a week before Pesach so there’s plenty of time to cook in advance, do all the laundry, etc, without a feeling of pressure. I plan to turn over the kitchen on the 23rd, and that day we’ll shift out of hectic mode and can all relax – I plan to take the family to the duck pond for his birthday – we did that last year and he requested to do it again, with the same refreshments as last year. Then on the March 24, I’ll do my monthly shopping, and Thurs. I’ll unpack, plan my Pesach menu (to be determined after I see what I buy), and cook for Shabbos. At that time the house is entirely ready – the only thing left to do the following week is cook for Pesach.
So far the challenge this week is that the best time to clean is when the littles are napping, but they each nap in a differentbedroom, so not much can be done on the top two floors since it will wake them up! That means cleaning with them awake and involved. The biggest challenge is the attic, since I keep all the clothes storage there. Since everyone is going through all of their drawers, I have a lot of clothes that need to be cleaned and then packed in the appropriate boxes. Once I get past this area of the house, it will get easier since I can use the time the kids are sleeping to work.
I also want to find some time to plan my garden. I don’t know if I’m going to get myself together enough to plant fruit trees – this is such a hectic time of year! I need to go through all the seeds I have, see what else I need, but the most time consuming thing of all is to make a plan for where everything will be planted. I have a feeling that I’m going to have to accept that I can’t make the more involved garden that I would like. Oh, well. At times like this I remind myself that I can only do so much, and to look at what I do accomplish instead of what is left undone.
Do you have any tips that help you stay relaxed and enjoy this time of year?
Avivah